People who are bonded by marriage often do so in a hurry or due to family and societal pressures. The practice of cheating a spouse and having an extramarital affair has been there across many generations. The main reason why such affairs took place and continued to exist is because there were not many ways of confirming an affair and catching an affair and doing something about it. Though there is a suspicion, one needs to have solid proof in order to prove the other person's infidelity.
Here are 4 signs of a cheating spouse. You can check on these signs before you take further steps to investigate an affair that your spouse possibly has:
1. Changes in schedule:though all people do not have a set time table that they follow,most of us do have a pattern of doing things. It can be the order in which you do things,certain grooming styles and the like. If you find relatively sudden and drastic change in behavioral and schedule patterns of your spouse,It can be a sign that he/she is seeing someone.
2. Complaining about you:You see yourself as a support to your spouse and do everything you can to show your love and support to your spouse. Your spouse appreciates this too. This is an ideal situation. But if you finds that your spouse has lately been having problems with everything you do and complains about your habits and actions unnecessarily,it could be because your partner is comparing you to someone else he/she likes. Talk it out. If it doesn't help go ahead and look for strong clues.
3. Suspicious telephonic or computer activity:If your spouse is spending an unusual amount of time on phone or computer and is trying to conceal this habit form you, you should try and figure out what's going on.
4. Spending less time together:as time passes, the amount of time your partner spends with you may reduce. This is common. However,if the time spent with you have drastically reduced,you should figure out what's going on. But find out the truth before confronting your better half with this.