Breaking up could have very serious effects on people, most especially when you truly loved the person.
It could make you feel so depressed, that you do not want to live life without them.
When you look back at the good times you had and all the fun you used to have, it almost drives you crazy.
The thought of seeing her in another man's car smiling is simply infuriating.
Immediately after the break up, you feel like running straight back at her and asking you to forgive you.
Sometimes it could have been you who got so upset and asked her to leave, and then you start to regret all your actions.
Many times very little strains could lead to break ups and that is why being in a relationship requires so much patience from both parties.
The first thing to do is to look back at the things that caused the break up.
Find the part you played in it.
Even if you think she was all to blame.
If you look closely, you will; discover that you had a hand to play in it.
If she was cheating on you, then it might signify that the romance had faded.
Maybe you stopped doing the little things that mattered so much to her.
Remember, ladies always like to have that assurance that their guys love them.
Remember Luther Vandross' Buy be a Rose.
There could be some things you overlooked that meant a whole lot to her.
When you have located your part in the issue, promise yourself that it will not repeat itself again.
Ensure that you don't go begging her to come back immediately.
Just as you needed time to discover your faults, so also does she.
If you go begging immediately, the anger will still be fresh in her heart and she will definitely turn you back.
After some weeks, go to her and render your apologies.
Don't beg, just be as mature as possible and let her know how sorry you truly are, let her know that you regret your actions and that you are OK with whatever decision she takes and that you will be as patient as possible with her.
Try to get on with your life.
Do not let your ex see you look so down, it will do you no good.
It will only make her see you as a loser so just live your life to the best of your ability.
Be friends with her; make sure she sees you going ahead with your life.
Girls love brave and confident men, doing these will portray you as such.
It could make you feel so depressed, that you do not want to live life without them.
When you look back at the good times you had and all the fun you used to have, it almost drives you crazy.
The thought of seeing her in another man's car smiling is simply infuriating.
Immediately after the break up, you feel like running straight back at her and asking you to forgive you.
Sometimes it could have been you who got so upset and asked her to leave, and then you start to regret all your actions.
Many times very little strains could lead to break ups and that is why being in a relationship requires so much patience from both parties.
The first thing to do is to look back at the things that caused the break up.
Find the part you played in it.
Even if you think she was all to blame.
If you look closely, you will; discover that you had a hand to play in it.
If she was cheating on you, then it might signify that the romance had faded.
Maybe you stopped doing the little things that mattered so much to her.
Remember, ladies always like to have that assurance that their guys love them.
Remember Luther Vandross' Buy be a Rose.
There could be some things you overlooked that meant a whole lot to her.
When you have located your part in the issue, promise yourself that it will not repeat itself again.
Ensure that you don't go begging her to come back immediately.
Just as you needed time to discover your faults, so also does she.
If you go begging immediately, the anger will still be fresh in her heart and she will definitely turn you back.
After some weeks, go to her and render your apologies.
Don't beg, just be as mature as possible and let her know how sorry you truly are, let her know that you regret your actions and that you are OK with whatever decision she takes and that you will be as patient as possible with her.
Try to get on with your life.
Do not let your ex see you look so down, it will do you no good.
It will only make her see you as a loser so just live your life to the best of your ability.
Be friends with her; make sure she sees you going ahead with your life.
Girls love brave and confident men, doing these will portray you as such.
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