After reading this article, there is no doubt that you are going to realize that you would have definitely made at least some of these mistakes.
The thing is, when you have just broken up with the person you love most, you are so depressed, that you don't even realize that you are making them and ruining any chances you have to get your ex back.
One big mistake that just about everyone makes is to persistently try to make contact with their exes.
Don't even think of doing this.
Your ex is so furious with you right now, and is hurting so badly after the break up, that any contact between the two of you will only cause another major argument.
Accepting total blame for the break up is yet another mistake that will prevent any chance you have to get your ex back.
Your ex knows full well that both of you are to blame for the break up.
You both said nasty things to each other and both have plenty of apologizing to do.
Accepting all the blame is a desperate attempt to try to get back together again.
Your pain and anger after the break up might prompt you to pour your heart out to your friends - BIG mistake.
First of all, the argument was between you and your ex only, and should be kept this way - private.
Also, bad-mouthing your ex will NOT get your ex back, but will only push him/her further away from you, because it will seem as if you have lost interest in your ex.
If you are harboring thoughts of using jealousy to get your ex back, then forget about it altogether.
Are you thinking about doing this because your ex became jealous at times during your relationship? Remember, you were still together then, and your ex was only protecting what was his/hers.
Things are very different now.
Your relationship has ended, and, if your ex sees you with someone else, his/her first thought will be that you are well and truly over the break up, don't have feelings for him/her anymore, and want to get on with your own life.
Don't make any of the above mistakes to try to get your ex back - they will only make matters a whole lot worse, and will not get you and your ex back together again - ever.
The thing is, when you have just broken up with the person you love most, you are so depressed, that you don't even realize that you are making them and ruining any chances you have to get your ex back.
One big mistake that just about everyone makes is to persistently try to make contact with their exes.
Don't even think of doing this.
Your ex is so furious with you right now, and is hurting so badly after the break up, that any contact between the two of you will only cause another major argument.
Accepting total blame for the break up is yet another mistake that will prevent any chance you have to get your ex back.
Your ex knows full well that both of you are to blame for the break up.
You both said nasty things to each other and both have plenty of apologizing to do.
Accepting all the blame is a desperate attempt to try to get back together again.
Your pain and anger after the break up might prompt you to pour your heart out to your friends - BIG mistake.
First of all, the argument was between you and your ex only, and should be kept this way - private.
Also, bad-mouthing your ex will NOT get your ex back, but will only push him/her further away from you, because it will seem as if you have lost interest in your ex.
If you are harboring thoughts of using jealousy to get your ex back, then forget about it altogether.
Are you thinking about doing this because your ex became jealous at times during your relationship? Remember, you were still together then, and your ex was only protecting what was his/hers.
Things are very different now.
Your relationship has ended, and, if your ex sees you with someone else, his/her first thought will be that you are well and truly over the break up, don't have feelings for him/her anymore, and want to get on with your own life.
Don't make any of the above mistakes to try to get your ex back - they will only make matters a whole lot worse, and will not get you and your ex back together again - ever.
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