What to Do When You Are Attracted to Someone Who Isn"t Your Partner?
If you find yourself strongly attracted to someone outside of your relationship there is a good chance you've just met a kindred spirit.
Relax! This is completely natural and doesn't mean you're with the 'wrong' person or that you'll never find fulfilment with your life partner.
One of the greatest confusions in relationships is caused by not understanding the difference between a Life Partner and a Kindred Spirit.
Once every 5-7 years, at critical times in our life, we will meet a kindred spirit and, depending on how our relationship and life is travelling, this event has the potential to turn our world upside down.
In fact this could be happening to your right now.
So what is a Kindred Spirit? Kindred spirits are people we effortlessly connect with.
They share our interests, values, and are so closely tuned into our wave length that they make us feel completely validated and of value.
When we first encounter a kindred spirit it can be all consuming, and arouse in us feelings that we have rarely experienced before.
The friendship itself can become like a drug that we become addicted to.
We can't wait to see them again in order to get the emotional rush and feeling of affirmation that we experience when we are around them.
However, while kindred spirits make us feel divine, are they meant to be our life partner? There is a valuable lesson we are meant to take away from these experiences which does not involve us running away, spending less time with our spouse or starting a passionate love affair! If Kindred Spirits aren't meant to be Life Partner's what are they for? The purpose of a kindred spirit is to awaken and affirm an aspect of ourselves that we are currently not honouring in our lives and relationship.
Life partners are usually very different to us and consequently they balance our energy.
Yet at the same time they require us to become confident in embracing our difference.
This is why they can feel so challenging at times.
In contrast Kindred Spirits affirm us and do so without us having to take full responsibility for affirming ourselves.
This is what makes them so pleasurable and potentially addictive.
Ultimately we are meant to accept how we feel when we are around our kindred spirit as a gift, and then take responsibility for bringing this quality into our lives more fully without the need for them to do it for us.
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Relax! This is completely natural and doesn't mean you're with the 'wrong' person or that you'll never find fulfilment with your life partner.
One of the greatest confusions in relationships is caused by not understanding the difference between a Life Partner and a Kindred Spirit.
Once every 5-7 years, at critical times in our life, we will meet a kindred spirit and, depending on how our relationship and life is travelling, this event has the potential to turn our world upside down.
In fact this could be happening to your right now.
So what is a Kindred Spirit? Kindred spirits are people we effortlessly connect with.
They share our interests, values, and are so closely tuned into our wave length that they make us feel completely validated and of value.
When we first encounter a kindred spirit it can be all consuming, and arouse in us feelings that we have rarely experienced before.
The friendship itself can become like a drug that we become addicted to.
We can't wait to see them again in order to get the emotional rush and feeling of affirmation that we experience when we are around them.
However, while kindred spirits make us feel divine, are they meant to be our life partner? There is a valuable lesson we are meant to take away from these experiences which does not involve us running away, spending less time with our spouse or starting a passionate love affair! If Kindred Spirits aren't meant to be Life Partner's what are they for? The purpose of a kindred spirit is to awaken and affirm an aspect of ourselves that we are currently not honouring in our lives and relationship.
Life partners are usually very different to us and consequently they balance our energy.
Yet at the same time they require us to become confident in embracing our difference.
This is why they can feel so challenging at times.
In contrast Kindred Spirits affirm us and do so without us having to take full responsibility for affirming ourselves.
This is what makes them so pleasurable and potentially addictive.
Ultimately we are meant to accept how we feel when we are around our kindred spirit as a gift, and then take responsibility for bringing this quality into our lives more fully without the need for them to do it for us.
Share this article with friends here What To Do [http://www.
thedynamiccouple.
com/page/KindredSpirits-And-LifePartners] When You Are Attracted to Someone Who Isn't Your Partner?You may even be able to join in on our live tele-seminar.
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