Heartbreaks can be a messy affair.
And at times you would wish nothing had changed.
On most of these occasions you probably realize the break up was your fault or even if your ex was responsible, it was not anything too grave.
In either case, you just can't do without your ex bringing back the sunshine in your life.
The solution to your troubles lies in how efficiently and how soon you can decode the bent of your ex's thought process.
Below I cater three psychological gimmicks which will be hard for your ex to resist.
We all consult our family before taking any significant decisions in our life as we believe they have our best interests in their mind, and that they certainly do.
Now post your break up, your ex may not be ready to listen to you, but what if his kinsfolk plead with him to give you a second chance? Will he still be able to hold his own? Not very probable.
So the plan is to remain close to his household; so much so that they feel incomplete without you around.
We all crave social prominence.
Anyone, who speaks highly of us in our social circles, wins our instant admiration.
Especially, if the praises were heaped in our absence, and we come to know of it from an unrelated person.
Our appreciation for that special individual then knows no bound.
So, that's the idea.
Commend your ex's mettle on his back, and let his friends report to him that you did so.
Don't project yourself as an emotional destitute.
Never give your ex the pleasure of knowing he can destabilize you.
This way you will just be making him stronger than he really is.
Be normal.
Show that you do have the notion of a possible reconciliation in your head, but that's not the only thing your head is full of.