The first time I became pregnant, I really did not care if I had a boy or a girl.
I knew that I would be thrilled and grateful to get either.
However, the second and third times were a little bit different.
I wanted to balance out my family and I wanted to experience raising both a male and a female.
I don't think that this scenario is at all uncommon.
Of course, we would all love whatever baby the universe blessed us with, but I don't think that there's anything wrong with having a preference as to gender.
This article will offer you tips to ensure success if your preference (at least this time around) is a baby girl.
Tip Number One: Understand What You Need To Overcome: In order to conceive a girl, there are a few things that you will need to overcome and you need to understand these things very clearly so that you can systematically address and then eliminate them.
The sperm which produces female babies (X) is actually the stronger of the two.
This is something that will work to your advantage if you let it.
However, these sperm are also quite slow.
The Y sperm (which produces males) is much faster and you really can not control this.
However, if you do nothing about this, you'll be at a grave disadvantage.
So, your goal should really be to eliminate as many Y sperm as you can so that they never have a chance to beat your X's out.
Always keep this in mind when you are working out your regimen.
Tip Number Two: Start With Your PH And Go Backwards From There: I always tell people to start with PH rather than timing.
You don't need very long to get a handle on timing your ovulation, but you will need a longer lead time to get your PH at optimal levels.
How does your PH come into play? Well, a high PH or an acidic home makes life not so great for the Y sperm.
As I mentioned before, the X sperm is much stronger than them and don't have much of a problem with acidity.
So, it makes a great deal of sense to become more acidic.
You can start this process by taking your PH with little strips which you can easily buy.
This will show you what you have (or don't have) to work with.
If your PH is quite alkaline, you'll need to allow yourself more time to change it.
If it's already pretty high, you'll probably just need to tweak or maintain it.
You can make these changes by limiting yourself to foods that have a high PH.
Or, you can douche, but typically not just with vinegar and water.
Technology has improved greatly since our mother's and grandmother's fertile years.
And, thanks to the strips, you can monitor and tweak your progress along the way quite easily.
Tip Number Three: Address Timing Next: As you begin to see your PH rise, begin using an ovulation predictor.
You can use either urine or saliva predictors, but for a girl conception, I would strongly recommend saliva because I believe that these can show you that ovulation is approaching much sooner.
Since you want to conceive three days before ovulation and to stop when it actually occurs, this knowledge is important.
Ideally, this ideal day comes in a period where you're also showing a high PH.
If you're still too low, then wait for the next month.
Tip Number Four: Pay Attention To Sexual Positions And Methods: Many people will just worry about having intercourse several times throughout their fertility window.
This really isn't enough.
For a girl conception, you need to avoid orgasm.
This is because orgasm from the women releases alkalizing fluids which will work against you.
You'll also want to use whatever positions will allow you to have shallow penetration.
This makes things harder still for the boy or Y sperm which, as bad as it sounds, is your goal.
I know that it can be not so much fun to have to be methodical about sex.
But, you only need to worry about this while you're trying to conceive.
These things don't matter during the three other weeks of the month.
I knew that I would be thrilled and grateful to get either.
However, the second and third times were a little bit different.
I wanted to balance out my family and I wanted to experience raising both a male and a female.
I don't think that this scenario is at all uncommon.
Of course, we would all love whatever baby the universe blessed us with, but I don't think that there's anything wrong with having a preference as to gender.
This article will offer you tips to ensure success if your preference (at least this time around) is a baby girl.
Tip Number One: Understand What You Need To Overcome: In order to conceive a girl, there are a few things that you will need to overcome and you need to understand these things very clearly so that you can systematically address and then eliminate them.
The sperm which produces female babies (X) is actually the stronger of the two.
This is something that will work to your advantage if you let it.
However, these sperm are also quite slow.
The Y sperm (which produces males) is much faster and you really can not control this.
However, if you do nothing about this, you'll be at a grave disadvantage.
So, your goal should really be to eliminate as many Y sperm as you can so that they never have a chance to beat your X's out.
Always keep this in mind when you are working out your regimen.
Tip Number Two: Start With Your PH And Go Backwards From There: I always tell people to start with PH rather than timing.
You don't need very long to get a handle on timing your ovulation, but you will need a longer lead time to get your PH at optimal levels.
How does your PH come into play? Well, a high PH or an acidic home makes life not so great for the Y sperm.
As I mentioned before, the X sperm is much stronger than them and don't have much of a problem with acidity.
So, it makes a great deal of sense to become more acidic.
You can start this process by taking your PH with little strips which you can easily buy.
This will show you what you have (or don't have) to work with.
If your PH is quite alkaline, you'll need to allow yourself more time to change it.
If it's already pretty high, you'll probably just need to tweak or maintain it.
You can make these changes by limiting yourself to foods that have a high PH.
Or, you can douche, but typically not just with vinegar and water.
Technology has improved greatly since our mother's and grandmother's fertile years.
And, thanks to the strips, you can monitor and tweak your progress along the way quite easily.
Tip Number Three: Address Timing Next: As you begin to see your PH rise, begin using an ovulation predictor.
You can use either urine or saliva predictors, but for a girl conception, I would strongly recommend saliva because I believe that these can show you that ovulation is approaching much sooner.
Since you want to conceive three days before ovulation and to stop when it actually occurs, this knowledge is important.
Ideally, this ideal day comes in a period where you're also showing a high PH.
If you're still too low, then wait for the next month.
Tip Number Four: Pay Attention To Sexual Positions And Methods: Many people will just worry about having intercourse several times throughout their fertility window.
This really isn't enough.
For a girl conception, you need to avoid orgasm.
This is because orgasm from the women releases alkalizing fluids which will work against you.
You'll also want to use whatever positions will allow you to have shallow penetration.
This makes things harder still for the boy or Y sperm which, as bad as it sounds, is your goal.
I know that it can be not so much fun to have to be methodical about sex.
But, you only need to worry about this while you're trying to conceive.
These things don't matter during the three other weeks of the month.
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