How can you make the object of your affections truly love you? Have you tried to win him over but it hasn't worked? Is there anything you can do to change the dynamic in your relationship? Well, you can make him truly love you if you remember three important rules.
1.
Keep some things hidden.
If you tell him everything there is to know about you, boredom will set in.
You have to keep some things hidden as long as possible.
Just don't talk about certain parts of your life and you will remain mysterious and elusive to him.
He will be excited to finally be able to know all about you.
The longer you can keep him guessing, the better.
2.
Limit games.
Be open and honest in all of your conversations.
Never fake any emotion, scroll through his emails, or do anything else that is dishonest.
You will eventually get caught and he will be disgusted by your behavior.
Instead, limit the games and drama and keep things completely honest.
All guys love a girl who can be herself and be real with him.
Tell him what you need and don't just expect him to read your mind all the time.
He will be made to fall in love with you just by simply being comfortable enough to be yourself.
3.
Be the joyful and bright spot of his day, every day.
If you can accomplish this rule, you will be well on your way to a successful relationship.
Everybody needs a positive mark on their day, and guys especially need an ego boost every now and then.
When you are encouraging, positive, and joyful, he will be drawn to your energy and vivaciousness.
Even a quick email or text can do the trick and brighten his day.
If you can remember these three rules and implement them into your life, you will find yourself not only with a great guy who loves you, you will also probably have more friends and a better time in your career.
Being yourself and being honest, yet intriguing can bring you success in every area of your life.
And your main concern, making him truly love you, will be an inevitable effect of the new honest, joyful, and playful you.