The fire is long gone and burnt out. What remains now are just embers from the cold ashes. Evidence that there was once a hot and consuming fire. The love was hot and the relationship was blossoming at an excellent rate. What remains now is a sour taste in the mouth and maybe a dull thud in your mind whenever you reflect on it. Can the threads that once tied you so tightly be picked? Is it possible to revive the sweet love you Once knew? There is nothing that is impossible in this troubled planet. You can stop talking about your love life in past tense and switch it to drive mode where you will be referring to it in present tense. Prepare all your body faculties, physically and psychologically to rejuvenate and revive the sweet love you Once knew. Gather all your energy for a common goal and purpose, to refurbish and rehabilitate your lost love, to give it a face lift, a new lease of life.
Identify what used to connect you. Maybe it was the area of common goals and interests in life that used to connect you together. Use them to your advantage and revive the sweet love you Once knew. Maybe you used to share the same ideologies, desires and dreams. This are very key areas in a persons life. You could sit down more often in a quiet place and start sharing and exchanging ideas just like you used to. You will find that when you share common interests there will be so much to talk about that actually you will fail to notice how time has flown by. You will spend more and more time together and you cannot rule out fondness developing between you. The only consistent thing in this world is change either for the better or for the worse. Spending so much time together will initiate a healing process so long as what brought division earlier does not rear its ugly head.
There are those areas that both of you really liked to visit. For instance your favorite coffee shop where you used to have coffee dates or the cinema you used to frequent. There are also the picnic sites and the routes you used to take together either for a walk or on horse back. Romance was at its peak then. Try to retrace this romance path and rediscover your love, the sweet love you Once knew. Make sure you hit the discovery trail with your partner, it will bring the memories flooding back. It will soften your partners stand point. Your partner can even see the necessity of reviving the love. Lighting the fire once more and making a commitment of keeping this fire burning.
Initiate talks to try and clear the stalemate. Discuss with your partner on what is ailing your relationship. Investigate what killed the spark because it is no lo9nger there. Be honest and humble enough to accept your mistakes if you were the contributing factor to the breakdown. Such a confession will melt your partners heart and pave way for reconciliation. Propose for an enactment of a new chapter in your relationship. A relationship that will be more accommodative and fulfilling and the dream of reviving the sweet love you Once knew will come true.
Identify what used to connect you. Maybe it was the area of common goals and interests in life that used to connect you together. Use them to your advantage and revive the sweet love you Once knew. Maybe you used to share the same ideologies, desires and dreams. This are very key areas in a persons life. You could sit down more often in a quiet place and start sharing and exchanging ideas just like you used to. You will find that when you share common interests there will be so much to talk about that actually you will fail to notice how time has flown by. You will spend more and more time together and you cannot rule out fondness developing between you. The only consistent thing in this world is change either for the better or for the worse. Spending so much time together will initiate a healing process so long as what brought division earlier does not rear its ugly head.
There are those areas that both of you really liked to visit. For instance your favorite coffee shop where you used to have coffee dates or the cinema you used to frequent. There are also the picnic sites and the routes you used to take together either for a walk or on horse back. Romance was at its peak then. Try to retrace this romance path and rediscover your love, the sweet love you Once knew. Make sure you hit the discovery trail with your partner, it will bring the memories flooding back. It will soften your partners stand point. Your partner can even see the necessity of reviving the love. Lighting the fire once more and making a commitment of keeping this fire burning.
Initiate talks to try and clear the stalemate. Discuss with your partner on what is ailing your relationship. Investigate what killed the spark because it is no lo9nger there. Be honest and humble enough to accept your mistakes if you were the contributing factor to the breakdown. Such a confession will melt your partners heart and pave way for reconciliation. Propose for an enactment of a new chapter in your relationship. A relationship that will be more accommodative and fulfilling and the dream of reviving the sweet love you Once knew will come true.
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