Change Privacy Settings

• 1). Log in to your Facebook account and click "Account" from the upper-right corner of your homepage.
  
  
• 2). Click "Privacy Settings" from the drop-down list.
  
  
• 3). Click "Customize Settings" at the bottom of the page.
  
  
• 4). Click the drop-down list next to "Posts by Me" in the "Things I Share" group.
  
  
• 5). Click "Customize" from the list of options. A dialog box appears on your screen.
  
  
• 6). Click the drop-down list in the "Make This Visible To" section and click "Only Me." Posts, such as status updates, photos and just added friend notifications won't appear on your friends' news feed pages.
  
  

Delete as They Appear

• 1). Click the "Profile" link from the upper right corner of your homepage.
  
  
• 2). Click "Wall" from the left column to display your Facebook Wall.
  
  
• 3). Hover your mouse over the just added friend notification.
  
  
• 4). Click the "X" that appears in the right corner of the post.
  
  
• 5). Click "Remove" post to delete the post from your wall. The post also deletes from your friends' news feed page.