After a break up, you have a lot of thoughts in your mind.
You may become too depressed because the relationship that is very special for you have fallen apart, or you are afraid that you won't find love anymore, or you are so angry that you want to seek revenge.
No matter what your reasons are, these are all affected by your sheer emotions and you are acting that way because obviously, you are heartbroken.
When you are heartbroken, your decisions are all affected by your emotions.
As much as possible, do not let your emotions to conquer you.
Always think unbiased so that you can make the right decision.
If you want your ex back, you have to clear your emotions and don't let it ruin your plans of pulling your ex back in your arms.
Contact your ex and don't let the communication to stop between you and your ex.
It's enough that you've been separated already.
After that, see to it that you have a constant communication with your ex because this will definitely help in your efforts of getting your ex back.
Through an open communication, the doors for reconciliation between you and your ex will not close.
If in case your ex won't let you to communicate with him, then this is the right time for your common friends to enter the picture.
Let them know that you and your ex have broken up and how much you want him back.
Your common friends will surely help you in reconciling with your ex.
However, it would be best not to be too obvious that you are asking them for help because your ex will not like this and instead of pulling him back, you will just be pushing him away.
Always remember that if you truly want your ex back to you, you have to lower down your pride and accept your shortcomings.
In case your ex doesn't want you back in his life, don't lose hope but patiently wait and don't rush things up.