If you're still feeling as though you've lost the love of your life, there is the possibility of rekindling the old flame.
First, think about what actually went wrong. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and get to work figuring out your relationship. When you know positively what caused the breakup, you can begin working on tactics to get your relationship back.
Let's back up.
Relationship begin with much excitement and suspense. Each person want to please the other. You make a special effort to look good and to say the right things. Both of you enjoy each other's company because you're trying hard to do so. When you both notice that you are enjoying each other, the relationship begins to settle into a comfort zone. Usually, this is the beginning of trouble.
Men and women communicate differently, so it is not unusual that many women think that when their man enters his comfort zone that he is pulling away from her. They immediately start to cling harder to him, wanting to see and be with him more often, with him telling her that he is not leaving her.
Now, the woman has gone from a confident, happy person to a person who has become deperate and needy. The man feels that he has lost the person he was attracted to initially, which leaves him with the belief that he can do nothing to please her. This is the biggest reason men withdraw from their girlfriends.
The most important thing for a woman to do is to pause after a breakup and work toward regaining your confidence and happiness. You can pursue new hobbies, or polish up old ones, enroll in a class and make new friends, or catch up with old ones. You will soon figure out that you can make yourself happy without your ex being in the picture. It will happen this way.
Now that you have restored your confidence and returned to your old self, call your ex to meet and catch up over coffee, or whatever you prefer. When he sees your old personality activated and he remembers the woman he fell for in the beginning, the old feelings of how much he enjoyed being with you should come rushing back. You will then be on the road to rekindling the flame and getting him back!
If your relationship is in trouble or if you would like to make an OK relationship into a GREAT one, then "The Magic of Making Up" is a must read. It is a proven and easy to follow means of solving problems found in personal relationships. It author, T.W. Jackson, has received heartfelt gratitude from his many readers worldwide, for his skill in assessing problems and applying quick and effective solutions, thus salvaging many relationships which might otherwise have been doomed to certain failure.
Over 50,000 people in 77 countries have benefitted from the book.
To read "The Magic of Making Up" in its entirety, just click to:
http://clarkfan1.makingup.hop.Clickbank.net
First, think about what actually went wrong. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and get to work figuring out your relationship. When you know positively what caused the breakup, you can begin working on tactics to get your relationship back.
Let's back up.
Relationship begin with much excitement and suspense. Each person want to please the other. You make a special effort to look good and to say the right things. Both of you enjoy each other's company because you're trying hard to do so. When you both notice that you are enjoying each other, the relationship begins to settle into a comfort zone. Usually, this is the beginning of trouble.
Men and women communicate differently, so it is not unusual that many women think that when their man enters his comfort zone that he is pulling away from her. They immediately start to cling harder to him, wanting to see and be with him more often, with him telling her that he is not leaving her.
Now, the woman has gone from a confident, happy person to a person who has become deperate and needy. The man feels that he has lost the person he was attracted to initially, which leaves him with the belief that he can do nothing to please her. This is the biggest reason men withdraw from their girlfriends.
The most important thing for a woman to do is to pause after a breakup and work toward regaining your confidence and happiness. You can pursue new hobbies, or polish up old ones, enroll in a class and make new friends, or catch up with old ones. You will soon figure out that you can make yourself happy without your ex being in the picture. It will happen this way.
Now that you have restored your confidence and returned to your old self, call your ex to meet and catch up over coffee, or whatever you prefer. When he sees your old personality activated and he remembers the woman he fell for in the beginning, the old feelings of how much he enjoyed being with you should come rushing back. You will then be on the road to rekindling the flame and getting him back!
If your relationship is in trouble or if you would like to make an OK relationship into a GREAT one, then "The Magic of Making Up" is a must read. It is a proven and easy to follow means of solving problems found in personal relationships. It author, T.W. Jackson, has received heartfelt gratitude from his many readers worldwide, for his skill in assessing problems and applying quick and effective solutions, thus salvaging many relationships which might otherwise have been doomed to certain failure.
Over 50,000 people in 77 countries have benefitted from the book.
To read "The Magic of Making Up" in its entirety, just click to:
http://clarkfan1.makingup.hop.Clickbank.net
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