A woman who used to be doted on by her husband can feel emotionally lukewarm and mildly depressed at the best end of the spectrum and mortified and emotionally destroyed at the other end of the spectrum if her husband stops loving her.
If his feelings wane a little bit, or if his feelings change completely and don't mean anything to him anymore, or if he declares that he hates you openly, a woman can feel alone, worthless, emotionally impoverished, and helpless.
She may wish to save her marriage, but she has no idea how to address her husband's feelings.
Maybe circumstances have created a wedge between you, but that is no indication that you should let that create a permanent gap in your relationship.
Such a thing can portend divorce.
There are a set of guidelines for saving your marriage from divorce, however.
The first piece of the plan to winning your husband back is acknowledging the ups and downs that you both have gone through since that first blissful wedding day.
Every marriage has its toll that is taken on it, and emotional detachment is a frequent occurrence rather than an aberrant anomaly.
Husbands have a different reaction dynamic than wives.
Women are immediately thrust into fix-it mode and will do everything they can to rectify the situation as quickly as possible.
This is a completely different approach than husbands take which is to leave things alone and see what happens as a result of non-interference.
Men need time to process, contemplate, and mull over the situation alone too.
Most of the time men will frequently return to their former mode of being in love with you.
A man must be left alone to go through this process alone.
The next time the topic of your marriage comes up, resist the urge to inundate your husband with hundreds of questions.
Men are averse to discussing their feelings, but leaving them alone will give them time to return to you without you irritating them.
During the time that you are leaving your husband to meditate on his thoughts, use this time to work on yourself.
Sometimes wives lose sight of their own individuality.
This happens because a family is formed and husbands are helped out, and women lose sight of who they are as people.
This is a woman's core role in servitude, but an excessive application of this mode of being can cause a rift in the relationship.
You have to return to yourself as a person to be of use to anyone.
Men loathe women that are overly dependent.
Men like independent, passionate, and successful women.
It's important for wives to remember their dreams when pursuing their husband again.