The Grafenberg spot commonly known as the G-spot is in fact one of the most common topics on the websites with discussions related to male & female health, issues related to sex, and penis size.
The spot has been named after Ernst Grafenberg, a well known gynecologist from Germany who first explained it in the year 1950, in his paper titled "The Role of urethra in female Orgasm.
" Grafenberg was born in Germany, a doctor by profession (Adelebsen 1881 - New York 1957) of Jewish descent.
In the year 1937 he was arrested by Nazis, but his friends from International Society of Sexology helped him escape in the year 1940 and he moved to California.
In order to reach the spot, you must first know the location.
On the vagina's top side between the cervix and the pubic bone lies the G-spot, similar to a female prostate.
G-spot is the part of Urethral sponge which plays a significant role at the time of arousal.
If stimulation is done properly, extreme pleasure can be obtained, giving rise to orgasm at the time of sexual intercourse.
In some of the cases when the spot is stimulated, some women could feel an urge to urinate.
This urethral sponge like tissue cushions against pubic bone and vagina wall, which surround the urethra.
This is made up of erectile tissue, and at the time of arousal they get filled with blood; it helps in compressing urethra to prevent urination while having sex.
The famous female ejaculation (a clear colored fluid) about which men's are quite curious are produced by Skene's glands, a part of urethral sponge.
Some scientists do not agree with G-spot being a physical spot.
According to them it's actually the deepest nerves in clitoris passing through urethral tissue and then connecting with the spinal column.
The point to be noted is that the fluid which Skene's gland produce at the time of orgasm passes through the urethra (like urine) but isn't a part of urine or a result of urinary incontinence.
The clear fluid produced is similar in look to the liquid in prostate therefore we can call it female ejaculation.
Once the women reaches the age of 30, the structural form of this tissue changes due to which it becomes easier to reach G-spot.
This is the reason why women over the age of 30 are bound to experience the best sexual pleasure.
How can one reach this mysterious spot? There are 3 basic methods which can be used to reach this location.
These methods are widely advertised on web in sex advice guides.
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The missionary position is best for men with penis curved in upward direction, since such penis is going to exert pressure on the vaginal front wall.
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The doggy style position is most suitable for men with downward curved penis or un-curved penis as this position helps in exerting large pressure against the front wall.
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With tongue or fingers: You need to push down on the clitoris and insert the tongue or finger upwards.
Since the precise distance varies from one individual to another, it is better to insert your finger or tongue at least 1 to 3 inch inside the vagina.
It was always generally considered that only males ejaculate, but in recent times the issue of female ejaculatory orgasms has become widely discussed, and has also attracted some controversy.
If you have been curious about this subject, you may have done some research yourself, and while much information has been published on this topic, a great deal of it is conflicting.
The truth of the matter is females can experience a type of ejaculation, but this does not apply to all women, and those who have, have had widely differing experiences.
There are those out there who would lead you to believe there is something wrong with you if you cannot achieve this, or there is a certain way to go about it, but when it comes to sexuality, people are individual.
So why does this physically happen for women who can experience female ejaculatory orgasms? Similar to the male prostate, women have Para urethral glands that open up into the urethra.
When these glands experience stimulation a thin clear fluid is created.
This can be a strange sensation, as ladies who have experienced female ejaculatory orgasm have thought they have lost control of their bladder.
However, this fluid is very different to urine, and it is also different to the other secretions that are produced during sex.
The amount of this fluid that is given out at the point of orgasm can vary greatly from woman to woman.
A significant number of women will have this experience, but many will not.
Just because you do not have a female ejaculatory orgasm, it does not mean that an orgasm has not been achieved.
It means that your body does not produce this fluid, at least not in visible amounts.
There are many stories about women firing liquid across rooms, or producing the liquid in gallons, but these are pure myth.
The body is not physically capable of producing the liquid in these quantities during sex.
There is nothing to be embarrassed about if you do experience female ejaculation as this is quite normal and in no way can this stop you having an enjoyable sex life.
Your partner will be open-minded even enjoy this part of your sexuality.
If you find that you produce enough of this fluid to create a wet patch on the bed after sex, you may find it helps to lay down a towel before sex.
People are individuals, and this is reflected in their sexuality and how their bodies work.
If you have a female ejaculatory orgasm or not, your overall sex life can still be an enjoyable one.