Once upon a time I spoke to a very close friend of mine, and he told me with a woman when it is over it is pretty much over, and he had very little chance to win her heart back but with a guy you can break up with him then get him back and then break up with him all over again and each time you have equal chance of getting him back.
I looked at him and I said to myself - wow this is new to me.
I did not realize it at all.
Once you know this psychology you may want to use it to your utmost advantage.
First tip I like to give you is to ask him why he broke up with you in the first place.
You need to really listen and don't try to justify what he is saying to you at all.
Just take it all in.
The reason is you will not want to do it again if you have any hope of winning him back.
Second tip is to make an effort to get on with your life.
I know this is probably one of the most difficult things you must do as, deep down, inside you really want to be with this ex-boyfriend, but you need to get all of your courage and do it.
Here are few tips for you to get started.
Sign up with a dating service and go on with a different date.
You really never know if this ex boyfriend is someone you really want and so by being with another man you get a chance to examine your true feelings and at the same time dating another man is a good strategy to get him back sooner.
Third tip is you should not call him at late hours and try to detach yourself from him as much as you possibly can, however, do make yourself available for dinners and other dating stuffs.
Fourth tip is being there for him and support him as a real friend would.
The whole time you play this friendship thing, never ever utter a word of your true desire.
Let him come to you.
Fifth tip is being very friendly and outgoing.
Do not confine in him like he is your boyfriend.
Treat him as a most important person in the world to you.
Every action you take, every word you say should always take his feelings, wants and needs into consideration.
How could a man turn down such a beautiful being such as yourself? And the thing is -- if he doesn't someone else will.
I looked at him and I said to myself - wow this is new to me.
I did not realize it at all.
Once you know this psychology you may want to use it to your utmost advantage.
First tip I like to give you is to ask him why he broke up with you in the first place.
You need to really listen and don't try to justify what he is saying to you at all.
Just take it all in.
The reason is you will not want to do it again if you have any hope of winning him back.
Second tip is to make an effort to get on with your life.
I know this is probably one of the most difficult things you must do as, deep down, inside you really want to be with this ex-boyfriend, but you need to get all of your courage and do it.
Here are few tips for you to get started.
Sign up with a dating service and go on with a different date.
You really never know if this ex boyfriend is someone you really want and so by being with another man you get a chance to examine your true feelings and at the same time dating another man is a good strategy to get him back sooner.
Third tip is you should not call him at late hours and try to detach yourself from him as much as you possibly can, however, do make yourself available for dinners and other dating stuffs.
Fourth tip is being there for him and support him as a real friend would.
The whole time you play this friendship thing, never ever utter a word of your true desire.
Let him come to you.
Fifth tip is being very friendly and outgoing.
Do not confine in him like he is your boyfriend.
Treat him as a most important person in the world to you.
Every action you take, every word you say should always take his feelings, wants and needs into consideration.
How could a man turn down such a beautiful being such as yourself? And the thing is -- if he doesn't someone else will.
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