Trust is next only to love as the most important aspect in a relationship.
Too many couples realize too late into their relationship that this is an indispensable element.
If your man asks you to trust him, what do you think he actually means? He wants to zip your lip.
Perhaps you've been nagging him incessantly about so many things.
Maybe he's tired of your endless suspicions and so he's trying to shut you up.
Keep in mind that your obsession might have driven him to ask you to trust him.
He wants to know how much you love him.
This guy wants to gauge how deep your feelings are for him.
And since trust is an essential part of every relationship, then he wants you to grant this to him in exchange for the love and trust that he's also offering.
He wants you to know that he gives importance to fidelity.
As your relationship would progress, you would soon realize that there are certain circumstances wherein your trust for each other would be tested.
Now this man would want to prove his loyalty to you by asking you to trust him.
As you trust and let him go, you're affirming to him that you believe in his full faithfulness.
He's addressing the issue from the onset.
Trust is a recurring issue among couples so he's just laying down his cards and he's telling you to completely trust him.
This guy just wants to assuage your fear of letting him go.
He's dying to prove himself to you so let him.
He's making the relationship work.
This guy is just laying down the very foundation that would make your union last.
Trust is like a cement that would bind you as a couple so if he asks you to give him that, he's just wanting to make things work out between the two of you.
Either you trust him or you don't.
If this guy becomes fed up with your nagging or nosiness, he'll eventually draw the line.
If you trust him, then you can go on with your relationship, and if you don't, well, you already know where he's going - out the door.
He asks you to give back.
Perhaps he trusts you fully and he's hurt that you can't even do the same thing with him.
If you want him to keep trusting you (or keep loving you for that matter), then you have to be ready to give back.
Just as he lets you have a girls' night out, he's also expecting you to let him have moments with his friends.