Want a cool date idea for the first date? Meet her for coffee or a drink for about 45 minutes.
Is that it? Is that all I have for you? You see, for a first date, you are not really sure about what her interest level is in you.
Usually when we are going out with a lady for the first time, she is a stranger.
So, just do something relaxed like meeting her for coffee or a drink.
You are there to make her laugh and you are looking for her to lightly touch you about 4-5 times (could be her tapping you on the arm as she laughs, a touch on the shoulder, brushing your leg, etc.
) The point is, women that do not like you, do not touch you at all.
Guys a lot of time put a head trip on themselves and want to do this whole big elaborate thing on the first date to "sell" her on all your charms.
Does not work.
She is responding to YOU and not the $75 concert tickets and $150 dinner (unless she is a mercenary or professional dater and you do not want that type of woman anyway).
As a guy, you will go out with a lot of women that are not either interested in you or they are professional daters/mercenaries just looking to burn your credit card, so until you know if she is interested in you or the plastic in your wallet, then why spend a lot or do a ton on the first date? That does not mean you take her to a fast food joint.
Meet her at a nice coffee shop or bar/restaurant for your time together.
Make sure she laughs a lot, touches you a few times and then get out of there while you are still having a good time.
You want her to remember the good time you had, be wanting more and then that will allow her to ANTICIPATE your next time together.
Some guys, on the first date want to spend 8 hours with her in an elaborate production and then at the end of it, she is on overload.
You do not have enough time in with her to spend that much time with her.
Remember, she is still a STRANGER to you and if you give her an overdose of you too soon, you short circuit the process of her building up interest in you.
Now, if you have some history with the lady and you have a rapport with her then you can pick her up for date 1 and take her out for dinner but everything else I said above holds.
Make her laugh, make sure she touches you a few times and get out while the date is still going well.
In this case you could spend a few hours with her instead of 45 minutes but the principles are the same.
Remember guys, when it comes to dating women, the rule is to move slowly and let her anticipate the next date with you.
Is that it? Is that all I have for you? You see, for a first date, you are not really sure about what her interest level is in you.
Usually when we are going out with a lady for the first time, she is a stranger.
So, just do something relaxed like meeting her for coffee or a drink.
You are there to make her laugh and you are looking for her to lightly touch you about 4-5 times (could be her tapping you on the arm as she laughs, a touch on the shoulder, brushing your leg, etc.
) The point is, women that do not like you, do not touch you at all.
Guys a lot of time put a head trip on themselves and want to do this whole big elaborate thing on the first date to "sell" her on all your charms.
Does not work.
She is responding to YOU and not the $75 concert tickets and $150 dinner (unless she is a mercenary or professional dater and you do not want that type of woman anyway).
As a guy, you will go out with a lot of women that are not either interested in you or they are professional daters/mercenaries just looking to burn your credit card, so until you know if she is interested in you or the plastic in your wallet, then why spend a lot or do a ton on the first date? That does not mean you take her to a fast food joint.
Meet her at a nice coffee shop or bar/restaurant for your time together.
Make sure she laughs a lot, touches you a few times and then get out of there while you are still having a good time.
You want her to remember the good time you had, be wanting more and then that will allow her to ANTICIPATE your next time together.
Some guys, on the first date want to spend 8 hours with her in an elaborate production and then at the end of it, she is on overload.
You do not have enough time in with her to spend that much time with her.
Remember, she is still a STRANGER to you and if you give her an overdose of you too soon, you short circuit the process of her building up interest in you.
Now, if you have some history with the lady and you have a rapport with her then you can pick her up for date 1 and take her out for dinner but everything else I said above holds.
Make her laugh, make sure she touches you a few times and get out while the date is still going well.
In this case you could spend a few hours with her instead of 45 minutes but the principles are the same.
Remember guys, when it comes to dating women, the rule is to move slowly and let her anticipate the next date with you.
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